Thank you to Gaye Hailstone, an Anna Chaplain in the Diocese of Norwich, for writing this update for us.
‘Doesn’t God work in mysterious ways? I have spent many sleepless nights and waking hours thinking how I might bring some peace and support to the old folk I have grown to love over the last few years. Suddenly they had been told that within a few weeks they will be re-homed – the owners have not consulted staff, residents or families and this came as a complete shock to everyone. How on earth do I bring some hope and positivity into such a bleak situation?
I planned appropriate Bible verses, time for people to open up if they wanted about their feelings and fears, some music, prayers, etc. Then today, when I arrived at the home with my Anna Friend, I realised with absolute horror that I had left all my carefully planned words and prayers on my desk at home. For a minute I felt blind panic and then such a feeling of calm came over me and I knew that the Holy Spirit was there beside me and would guide me – I knew I wouldn’t offend, cause even more concern or fear and that when the prayer time was over all would be well.
And of course, that was how it was – words just came to me and somehow, I found the right words to respond to the heartbreaking cries for help and I knew I was being led. After about an hour I felt it was time to bring it all to a positive close with a couple of hymns and prayers, including the Lord’s Prayer which they all know so well. One 98 year old lady actually said she felt better, and it had really helped her to remember that God was with her and taking care of her during this difficult time. We got smiles rather than tears when we left.
This is just one small example of the spiritual care which Anna Chaplains, across the diocese, offer to the elderly and those on the dementia pathway.
Thank you to Nicky Dunnett, an Anna Chaplain in Thorpe End, for writing this update for us.
One of the first things I felt called to do as an Anna Chaplain was to organise a ‘Coffee, Cake and Company’ group at St David’s, and the response has been really positive. Up to 30 of us gather each month and I have had brilliant support from Anna friends and other members of the congregation who are keen cake makers!
When Broadlands Lodge Care Home was built in our parish a little while ago, we felt that support from the church would be appreciated. As an Anna Chaplain I have been regularly visiting residents both individually, offering communion, and also holding a monthly service of songs, readings and a Reflection. It has been a joy to build warm relationships with many individuals, both residents and carers, and to see God at work in what we do.
More information about Anna Chaplaincy
Anna Chaplaincy is a specialist ministry pathway through training as an Authorised Pastoral Assistant. You can find more information here: Anna Chaplaincy – Diocese of Norwich
Contact: Authorised Pastoral Assistant (APA) – Diocese of Norwich